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Types
of Abuse
Domestic violence can occur in different forms
of abuse.
- Physical - Hitting, slapping,
kicking, shoving, pushing, shaking, biting, and pinching
- Verbal/Emotional - Constant
criticism, making humiliating remarks/name calling, ignoring what
the victim is saying, mocking, yelling, interrupting, swearing,
threats/intimidation, emotional withholding, and degrading the victim
- Sexual - Forcing sex on an
unwilling partner, demanding sexual acts, forcing uncomfortable
sex, and criticizing sexual ability
- Isolation - Keeping the victim
from seeing family or friends, monitoring phone calls, reading mail,
and restricting victim's movements
- Financial - Not paying the
bills, refusing to buy food/necessities for the victim and/or family,
not letting the victim have money, or not letting the victim work
- Coercion- Threatening the
victim into decisions, manipulating children and other family members,
always insisting on being right, making up impossible "rules"
and punishing the victim and children for breaking them, self-destructive
behavior, making the victim feel guilty
- Harassment/ Stalking
- Following or stalking, constantly checking up on the victim, multiple
telephone calls and visits, and refusing to leave when asked
Why do battered women stay?
- Denial
- Love
- Children
- Dependence
- Hope of change
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- Financial
- Isolation
- Culture
- Religion
- Status
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- Language barriers
- Pride
- Low self-esteem
- Fear of retaliation
- Loneliness
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