Domestic Violence
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Types of Abuse

Domestic violence can occur in different forms of abuse.

  • Physical - Hitting, slapping, kicking, shoving, pushing, shaking, biting, and pinching

  • Verbal/Emotional - Constant criticism, making humiliating remarks/name calling, ignoring what the victim is saying, mocking, yelling, interrupting, swearing, threats/intimidation, emotional withholding, and degrading the victim

  • Sexual - Forcing sex on an unwilling partner, demanding sexual acts, forcing uncomfortable sex, and criticizing sexual ability

  • Isolation - Keeping the victim from seeing family or friends, monitoring phone calls, reading mail, and restricting victim's movements

  • Financial - Not paying the bills, refusing to buy food/necessities for the victim and/or family, not letting the victim have money, or not letting the victim work

  • Coercion- Threatening the victim into decisions, manipulating children and other family members, always insisting on being right, making up impossible "rules" and punishing the victim and children for breaking them, self-destructive behavior, making the victim feel guilty

  • Harassment/ Stalking - Following or stalking, constantly checking up on the victim, multiple telephone calls and visits, and refusing to leave when asked

Why do battered women stay?

  • Denial
  • Love
  • Children
  • Dependence
  • Hope of change
  • Financial
  • Isolation
  • Culture
  • Religion
  • Status
  • Language barriers
  • Pride
  • Low self-esteem
  • Fear of retaliation
  • Loneliness