Definition of Stalking

Penal Code 646.9 defines a stalker as "any person who willfully, maliciously and repeated follows or harasses another person and who makes a credible threat with the intent to place that person in reasonable fear for his or her safety, or the safety of his or her immediate family." (p. 117)

Characteristics of a Stalker:

• Does not accept victim's decision that relationship is over
  
• Manipulative
• Unable to cope with rejection
• Falls instantly in love
• Difficulty distinguishing between fantasy and reality
• Dependent on others for sense of "self"
• Blames his/her situation on others

Common Behaviors of a Stalker:

• Persistent in following the victim
• Multiple violations of a restraining order
• Taking mail from the victim's mailbox
• Showing up at the victim's home or work
• Sending the victim letters, notes, e-mails, and gifts that are threatening to the victim, either by themselves or when viewed with other conduct of the perpetrator
• Vandalism